Chronic illness dating
Each has their own schtick but in the end they’re always the same – you choose somebody to match with based on a couple of photos and a short biography.
You chat with them for a bit and then maybe you go out together.
However, my deepest desire in life is to get married and have children someday, so obviously I can’t stay single forever. And if you don’t, does it mean you didn’t like them?
And I know plenty of wonderful chronically ill women through Instagram that have lovely partners, so I know it’s not impossible. Then there’s waiting for the other person to call or text.
Then there’s the issue of texting (and snapchat, and Whats App, and Facebook message, and Instagram DM, and alllll that jazz).
As a tween, while my counterparts obsessed over Britney Spears and the Backstreet Boys, I jammed out to “Can’t Buy Me Love” and “Bennie and the Jets.” I knew how to sew from my mom and how to knit from my best friend (the most grandma-esque activities I can think of).I learned that if I had one busy day, it would take me three days of rest to rebuild my energy. If I was in a flare, count me out for any non-essential activities, and sometimes count me out of the essential ones too.I have periods of time when I barely leave the couch, let alone the house.Suddenly I couldn’t make it through the day without a nap.I had to plan and schedule my time meticulously in order to maximize my energy.