Commitment dating dilemma
Exclusivity is good, but we must remember that intimacy takes time to grow.
So alongside being exclusive, we need to be wise in how we nurture intimacy.
Rushing headlong into vulnerability and pinning all our hopes on one person can be very overwhelming for them. Our trust and intimacy with each other needs to flourish over time.
As you commit yourself to being exclusive and going deep, avoid sinking into intimacy you’re not yet ready for.
Janine faced a big dating dilemma: Her boyfriend of eight months, Devin, was a nearly perfect match for her.
“But there’s that one sticking point—steady employment.
(Read the introduction of The Dating Dilemma book for free now, or buy the book here.) What stage are you at?
Are you between stages need to be honest about where you are and where you want to be.
New relationships are often hindered by assumptions and confusion around commitment.
People can assume that the other person is as committed as they are.