Dating a controlling man
Whenever you tell him he’s acting crazy, he just claims it’s all because he loves you so much.Even when he’s mean and psycho, he makes it sound like it’s coming from a good place.He’s told you how insecure he is (and somehow made you feel like that was your problem).He makes it seem like you’re the only thing in his life that makes him feel good about himself. There’s nothing like an overwhelming pressure of being the only source of someone’s happiness to keep you in a crappy relationship.When a guy puts that much focus on your feed it isn’t sweet; it’s scary.
His constant complaint to me is that I don't spend enough time with him.
It’s not endearing, and it’s only because he’s insecure and needs someone there who will constantly stroke his fragile ego.
Good boyfriends encourage your dreams and support your ideas.
Boyfriends who are jealous are jealous of any dude who’s getting your attention. You’ll hear how every guy is just trying to sleep with you, and you’ll be in a constant tug-of-war between the other men in your life and your boyfriend. So no, he’s not going to applaud your vision board or your idea to start your own business.
He wants to keep you small so he can keep you for himself.