Divorced man dating younger woman
They may not be looking for long-term relationships and this excites older men.
These men do not wish to bear the burden of responsibility, which is why they date young women.
He enjoys being in charge of the relationship and the young woman usually is submissive.
Pursuing young women and somewhat dominating them is what the older man looks for. Dating a much younger woman puts him in a position of authority and creates a social image.
Older guy younger woman only lasts for a period of time and then it just doesn’t work anymore. It’s sad because when any relationship ends it hurts, and despite the age difference, if you spend a large amount of time with someone, you begin to care for them, and ending it hurts.
Also, I’m not saying that every older guy younger woman relationship is doomed. I have many guy friends who are in their forties and fifties who tell me they prefer to date women around their age.
” Case in point—I received this message from a reader: Now, why would this guy reach out and ask about the downside if he is saying “We both enjoy the relationship? If no one is getting hurt and if there are no false expectations on either part, then I think it’s great. The downside is, these kinds of relationships have a shelf life.
Young women are satisfied with little things that may be insignificant for older women. Younger women will explore career options and have less time.
Men who wish to escape the web of responsibility will choose younger women. Emotional attachment to men may not be their priority.
They are admired and deemed as worthy of unconditional love, whereas a woman of the same age would seek success and stability that may mar the sense of accomplishment in men.
Sadly, society has a fixed standard of beauty which rejects the natural elan of old age.