Issues in dating older men
At the time I didn't feel like I was being taken advantage of.I definitely felt like I had autonomy, but now looking back, I can see a little bit of his skittishness.I think it's because she thought I wouldn't go to college, but I am. I've found that, generally, older guys are more responsive to what I do and don't want to do.I'm borderline asexual, so it's a big deal for someone to be impatient and pushy about sex.Dating older men as a woman (also known as an age gap relationship) seems to be something that fascinates a lot of people (rightly or wrongly).
Try Googling images of 50-year-olds and 70-year-olds and see how many more of these lines the latter group has.They will never trust him if he’s 10-plus years your senior, no matter what he does to gain their approval along the way.If he encourages you to do this before you’re ready, you will forever resent him for what you missed out on.Instead, when they looked at me, all they saw was my young good looks. That's really all I was to them, my appearance, and that was the only thing about me of value to them. It was weird." "My boyfriend is 30 years older than me, we have been together nine years."I finally got wise and stopped dating much older guys, and if I had a time machine I'd go back and warn my younger self against doing it because in the same way it's a trope that rich guys hate it when gold diggers want them for their financial market value, I hated it that they just wanted me for my looks." "Dated someone with an 11 year age gap. One of the things I noticed with him is that he doesn't 'allow' me to do things, I am an adult and I can hang out, drink, socialise, and be friends with whoever I want to be. We don't argue over petty shit, if there is an issue we can sit down, talk it out like adults and come up with a solution (80% of the time - don't get me wrong after nine years there have been a few big blow outs).