Say contacting someone online dating
"If you're worried about your safety, have an afternoon date and have a friend check in with you or tell them where you will be and that you'll text them when you're home."Hoffman, on the other hand, does encourage reaching out by phone prior to meeting.
Is it better to move quickly into the first date, or should you take it slow and really get to know as much as you can about the person via text before meeting face to face?
You want to meet in person as quickly as possible because some people can have great texting chemistry but then aren't attracted to the person.” Online dating coach and relationship expert Damona Hoffman agrees.
When it comes to moving from texting to the first date, the sooner the better.
"You can tell much more about how you will interact with one another by phone when you can instantly respond and banter with one another than over text in which the words are often more carefully chosen and an image is being cultivated.” “Also, once you have spoken to one another, you become more real than just a face on an app or a name on a phone, and you are less likely to be stood up on the first date or ghosted early on," she adds.
Ultimately, the most important factor in deciding when to move from texting to meeting in real life is if you are ready.